Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Description of Resource Collection for Parents

Yuan Chen (Anna)
Prof. Christine Schull
CHD 216

The collected resources are grouped into ten categories, and arranged alphabetically. They are prepared for the parents of preschoolers with age from 3 to 4. They cover issues of choosing appropriate childcare and toys, county guidelines, milestones from 3yrs to 5-yrs, safety, health, and communication. As a teacher, one part of our job is to educate parents to strengthen their ability to effectively understand their children. The more knowledge about child education they have, the happier and healthier reciprocal relationship they will enjoy with their children. Two resources about infants are also included because some preschoolers may have younger siblings. They can be helpful to those who may need this kind of information.

I feel these resources are also helpful to new immigrants, since they may have limited knowledge about the educational system in America. It is often seen that new immigrant parents are not brave to speak freely with teachers. These resources, from Fairfax County Department of Family Services, can help them to know more about the system, rules, policies and regulations in this country, particularly in this community.

The guidelines and milestones give parents a picture about the process of children’s development. That information can help parents to have appropriate expectations towards their children. Sometimes, it can avoid some unnecessary conflicts due to too high’s or too low’s expectations or goals. Two articles about discipline are included, which can help those parents who do not have good strategies of dealing with children’s behavior problems. They may know what problem the child has, but may not know the appropriate way to deal with it. Professional knowledge can enhance their parenting skills.

There are five resources related to reading and early literacy. Reading skills will determine the level of later academic success even a person’s whole life.

In my teaching, I will invite parents to provide some articles, flyers, even to share their own experiences about educating, which can be valuable items added to the parents’ corner. That can also give us a chance to know more about parents.

Monday, February 1, 2010

Contents

A. Child Care issues and Guidelines
1. Early Learning Guidelines of Fairfax County
2. Guidelines for Selecting a Babysitter
3. Tips for Shopping with Your Child
4. Child Supervision Guidelines--Fairfax County
5. If You See a Child Being Mistreated in a Public Place
6. Quality Child Care
7. Amerigroup Community Care

B. Communication
8. Words that Help Kids
9. Building Parent-Teacher Partnerships
10. How to Talk to Your Kids about the Earthquake in Haiti?
11. The Importance of Attachment
12. Think before You Spank

C. Development & Milestones
13. Developmental Milestones Ages Three, Four & Five
14. Developmental Milestones: Age 3
15. How Early Experiences Affect Brain Development
16. The Talking Three Year Old
17. Is your baby smart?

D. Encouragement and Discipline
18. Tony DiTerlizzi and Encouraging Young Artists
19. Discipline for Your Child
20. TIME-OUT Discipline Technique

E. Family activity
21. Family History Projects

F. Healthy issues
22. About Flu Season
23. Bee Wise, Immunize!
24. Tip for a Healthy Lifestyle
25. Family Fun and Fitness
26. About Diabetes

G. Military issues
27. Supporting young children affected by a military parent’s death
28. Supporting young children affected by a military parent’s injury

H. Reading & Early Literacy
29. How does Reading Develop Taste Buds?
30. Put Reading First
31. Literacy Is a Survival Skill
32. Help Little Ones Learn to Love Reading
33. Books Families Can Share with Their Children

I. Safety issues
34. Never Shake a Baby
35. Keeping Kids Safe in or around vehicles
36. Be Careful with Windows and Young Children

J. Toy
37. Toy Safety Shopping Tips
38. Think Toy Safety
39. Good Toys for Young Children

Supporting young children affected by a military parent’s death

The link of PDF file (Supporting young children affected by a military parent’s death)

Supporting young children affected by a military parent’s injury

The link of PDF file (Supporting young children affected by a military parent’s injury)

WORDS THAT HELP KIDS

The link of PDF file (WORDS THAT HELP KIDS)

TIPS FOR SHOPPING WITH YOUR CHILD

The link of PDF file (TIPS FOR SHOPPING WITH YOUR CHILD)

Toy safety shopping tips

the Link (Toy safety shopping tips)

Think Toy Safety

The link of PDF file (think toy safety)

The Talking Three Year Old

Communication Milestones for Early Speech and Language Skills


Feb 19, 2008 Claire Bolton

A Specialist Paediatric Speech-Language Pathologist outlines the early communication and language skills to expect at three years of age.

If language development is progressing well, an explosion of new words will occur from the age of two years. By the age of three a child should have a vocabulary of at least 300 words. Three-year-olds will also be trying to ask questions, repeat lengthy sentences, be frustrated if others are unable to understand them (i.e. they are aware that their verbalizations allow them to communicate with others), be interested in books (which is important for their developing literacy skills), imitating new words, and singing simple songs to music.

Communication and language skills of three year olds include:

Says Three-Four word Sentences Spontaneously

Being able to say a short sentence by themselves without copying someone else is an achievement in three year olds. An example may be, "Mummy in big car!". It means that they are gaining an independent understanding of language and its structure and can use it to relay events.

Imitates Five Word Sentences

Copying difficult sentences with or without prompting is an important step in child language development. By the age of three a child should be able to imitate sentences around five words in length, such as, "John wants big red ball."

Has At Least Three Hundred Words in Their Vocabulary

Actively Listens To Stories

By hearing stories, a child is able to improve their attention and comprehension skills. They also tend to have favorite books and television shows.

Looks At Books Independently

Children imitate what they see. If they observe adults enjoying reading, they will attempt to read too.

Recognizes and Communicates Needs

Being able to tell someone when they are hungry, tired or need the toilet are important milestones for three year olds.

Chats to Themselves When Playing

Children need to gain confidence with their speaking skills by practicing talking during play with their toys. They may be narrating or providing the voices for characters.

Uses Three Prepositions

Prepositions are position words such as “in”, “under”, “over” and “on”. Children may say phrases such as "Teddy in box" or "Dolly on bed".

Understands Basic Verbs

Verbs are action words. Children who are three years old are usually able to say verbs that are commonly used, such as “sleeping”, “walking”, “washing” and "eating".

Can Identify the Longer of Two Objects

Awareness of concepts such as long and short emerge at this age. For example, if asked to point to the long pencil, they should be able to distinguish it from a shorter pencil.

Can Identify At Least Six Body Parts

Children of the age of three years are usually able to point to a few body parts, such as "head", "eyes", "nose", "mouth", "tummy", "hand", and "foot"

Follows Simple Instructions

Three-year-olds can understand simple requests, such as "Please put this ball in your room"

Asks “What?”, “Where?” and “When?” Questions

Children are generally curious and asking questions is an important developmental milestone. Adults are often required to patiently respond to endless questions when children are three years old.

Can Tell Stories and Verbally Recall Events

Ever increasing sentence lengths enable children to produce small "stories" and describe activities.

Sings Nursery Rhymes

Children enjoy singing. It's an important aspect of language development.

Matches Primary Colors and Can Name One

Children don't have to be able to verbally identify "red", "green", "yellow" and "blue" at the age of three, but being able to find an item that's the same color as another is an expected milestone. If they can actually label the color by saying the word, that's a bonus skill.

Can Draw a Circle and Line

Being able to hold a crayon to create vague shapes is a step towards literacy skills when children learn to write letters.

Can Say The Following Sounds: “b”, “p”, “m”, “g”, “k”, “h”, “w”, “d”, “t”, “n”. These sounds should now be appearing within words that children say.

Can Be Understood By Family and Close Friends

Usually children are best understood by familiar listeners who are used to listening to an individual child.

By the age of three children should be progressing well with their language development in preparation for school. If children appear to be struggling, seek the advice of a speech-language pathologist for tips on three-year-old language development.


Read more at Suite101: The Talking Three Year Old: Communication Milestones For Early Speech and Language Skills http://infanttoddlerdevelopment.suite101.com/article.cfm/the_talking_three_year_old#ixzz0dgYZvub5

Teaching new words is vital at this age, as children need to have many new words to use in their increasingly lengthening sentences. Reading books together is an ideal way for increasing vocabularly.

How Early Experiences Affect Brain Development

The link of PDF file (How Early Experiences Affect Brain Development)

GUIDELINES FOR SELECTING A BABYSITTER

The link of PDF link (GUIDELINES FOR SELECTING A BABYSITTER)

CHILD SUPERVISION GUIDELINES--Fairfax County

The link of PDF file (CHILD SUPERVISION GUIDELINES)

NEVER SHAKE A BABY

The link of PDF file. (NEVER SHAKE A BABY)

KEEPING KIDS SAFE in or around vehicles

The link of PDF file. (Keeping Kids Safe in or around Vehicles)

Good Toys for Young Children

NAEYC offers the following information on selecting the safest and most appropriate toys for young children.

Safe toys for young children are:

  • well-made (with no shared parts or splinters and do not pinch)
  • painted with nontoxic, lead-free paint
  • shatter-proof
  • easily cleaned

Electric toys should be "UL Approved." Be sure to check the label, which should indicate the toy has been approved by the Underwriters Laboratories. In addition, when choosing toys for children under age 3, make sure there are no small parts or pieces that could become lodged in a child's throat and cause suffocation.

It is important to remember that typical wear and tear can result in a once-safe toy becoming hazardous. Adults should check toys frequently to make sure they are in good repair.

For a list of toys that have been recalled by manufacturers, visit the Toy Hazard Recalls page of

the Consumer Product Safety Commission Website:

http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/category/toy.html

For information on lead poisoning, you can obtain a free brochure from the American Academy

of Pediatrics: http://www.aap.org/new/Lead-PatientEdBrochure.pdf

Good Toys and Activities for Young Children

In addition to being safe, toys for young children need to match their stages of development and emerging abilities. Many safe and appropriate play materials are free items typically found at home. Cardboard boxes, plastic bowls and lids, collections of plastic bottle caps, and other "treasures" can be used in more than one way by children of different ages. As you read the following lists of suggested toys for children of different ages, keep in mind that each child develops at an individual pace. Items on one list - as long as they are safe - can be good choices for children who are younger and older than the suggested age range.

Toys for Young Infants - Birth through 6 Months

Babies like to look at people - following them with their eyes. Typically, they prefer faces and bright colors. Babies can reach, be fascinated with what their hands and feet can do, lift their heads, turn their heads toward sounds, put things in their mouths, and much more!

Good toys for young infants:

  • Things they can reach for, hold, suck on, shake, make noise with - rattles, large rings, squeeze toys, teething toys, soft dolls, textured balls, and vinyl and board books
  • Things to listen to - books with nursery rhymes and poems, and recordings of lullabies and simple songs
  • Things to look at - pictures of faces hung so baby can see them and unbreakable mirrors

Toys for Older Infants - 7 to 12 Months

Older babies are movers - typically they go from rolling over and sitting to scooting, bouncing, creeping, pulling themselves up, and standing. They understand their own names and other common words, can identify body parts, find hidden objects, and put things in and out of containers.

Good toys for older infants:

  • Things to play pretend with - baby dolls, puppets, plastic and wood vehicles with wheels, and water toys
  • Things to drop and take out - plastic bowls, large beads, balls, and nesting toys
  • Things to build with - large soft blocks and wooden cubes
  • Things to use their large muscles with - large balls, push and pull toys, and low, soft things to crawl over

Toys for 1-year-olds

One-year-olds are on the go! Typically they can walk steadily and even climb stairs. They enjoy stories, say their first words, and can play next to other children (but not yet with!). They like to experiment - but need adults to keep them safe.

Good toys for 1-year-olds:

  • Board books with simple illustrations or photographs of real objects
  • Recordings with songs, rhymes, simple stories, and pictures
  • Things to create with - wide non-toxic, washable markers, crayons, and large paper
  • Things to pretend with - toy phones, dolls and doll beds, baby carriages and strollers, dress-up accessories (scarves, purses), puppets, stuffed toys, plastic animals, and plastic and wood "realistic" vehicles
  • Things to build with - cardboard and wood blocks (can be smaller than those used by infants - 2 to 4 inches)
  • Things for using their large and small muscles - puzzles, large pegboards, toys with parts that do things (dials, switches, knobs, lids), and large and small balls

Toys for 2-year-olds (Toddlers)

Toddlers are rapidly learning language and have some sense of danger. Nevertheless they do a lot of physical "testing" : jumping from heights, climbing, hanging by their arms, rolling, and rough-and-tumble play. They have good control of their hands and fingers and like to do things with small objects.

Good toys for 2-year-olds:

  • Things for solving problems - wood puzzles (with 4 to 12 pieces), blocks that snap together, objects to sort (by size, shape, color, smell) and things with hooks, buttons, buckles, and snaps
  • Things for pretending and building - blocks, smaller (and sturdy) transportation toys, construction sets, child-sized furniture (kitchen sets, chairs, play food), dress-up clothes, dolls with accessories, puppets, and sand and water play toys
  • Things to create with - large, non-toxic, washable crayons and markers, large paintbrushes and fingerpaint, large paper for drawing and painting, colored construction paper, toddler-sized scissors with blunt tips, chalkboard and large chalk, and rhythm instruments
  • Picture books with more details than books for young children
  • CD and DVD players with a variety of music (of course, phonograph players and cassette recorders work too!)
  • Things for using their large and small muscles - large and small balls for kicking and throwing, ride-on equipment (but probably not tricycles until children are 3), tunnels, low climbers with soft material underneath, and pounding and hammering toys

Toys for 3- to 6-year-olds (Preschool and Kindergartners)

Preschoolers and kindergartners have longer attention spans than toddlers. Typically they talk a lot and ask a lot of questions. They like to experiment with things and with their still-emerging physical skills. They like to play with friends - and don't like to lose! They can take turns - and sharing one toy by two or more children is often possible for older preschoolers and kindergartners.

Good toys for 3- to 6-year-olds:

  • Things for solving problems - puzzles (with 12 to 20+ pieces), blocks that snap together, collections and other smaller objects to sort by length, width, height, shape, color, smell, quantity, and other features - collections of plastic bottle caps, plastic bowls and lids, keys, shells, counting bears, small colored blocks
  • Things for pretending and building - many blocks for building complex structures, transportation toys, construction sets, child-sized furniture ("apartment" sets, play food), dress-up clothes, dolls with accessories, puppets and simple puppet theaters, and sand and water play toys
  • Things to create with - large and small crayons and markers, large and small paintbrushes and fingerpaint, large and small paper for drawing and painting, colored construction paper, preschooler-sized scissors, chalkboard and large and small chalk, modeling clay and playdough, modeling tools, paste, paper and cloth scraps for collage, and instruments - rhythm instruments and keyboards, xylophones, maracas, and tambourines
  • Picture books with even more words and more detailed pictures than toddler books
  • CD and DVD players with a variety of music (of course, phonograph players and cassette recorders work too!)
  • Things for using their large and small muscles - large and small balls for kicking and throwing/catching, ride-on equipment including tricycles, tunnels, taller climbers with soft material underneath, wagons and wheelbarrows, plastic bats and balls, plastic bowling pins, targets and things to throw at them, and a workbench with a vise, hammer, nails, and saw
  • If a child has access to a computer: programs that are interactive (the child can do something) and that children can understand (the software uses graphics and spoken instruction, not just print), children can control the software's pace and path, and children have opportunities to explore a variety of concepts on several levels

For More Information

The following resources with information about safe, appropriate toys for young children are available through NAEYC:

About Flu Season

The link of video. (Flu Season)

Early Learning Guidelines of Fairfax county

The link of PDF file (Early Learning Guidelines of Fairfax county)

IF YOU SEE A CHILD BEING MISTREATED IN A PUBLIC PLACE

The link of PDF file (IF YOU SEE A CHILD BEING MISTREATED IN A PUBLIC PLACE)

Developmental Milestones Ages Three, Four & Five

The link of PDF file (Developmental Milestones Ages Three, Four & Five)

Family History Projects

The Link of PDF File. (Family History Projects)

Are your baby smart?

The Link of PDF file(Are Your Baby Smart?)

Developmental milestones: Age 3

Knowing what to expect as your child grows can reassure you that your child is on track with his peers or alert you to potential concerns. Below are some milestones to watch for during the preschool years.


By Joyce Destefanis, M.A., Nancy Firchow, M.L.S.

Since birth, you've watched your child grow and develop. You've noted his height and weight, when he crawled, stood, and walked, even when he spoke his first words — and perhaps compared all of these milestones of his infant and toddler years to the "norms." The preschool and early school years are also full of changes. From three to five your child's motor skills, language, thinking, and social development change dramatically.

Knowing what to expect as your child grows can reassure you that your child is on track with his peers or alert you to potential concerns. Below are some milestones to watch for during the preschool years.

Milestones: 3-Year-Olds

Motor Development: Gross Motor Skills

  • walks with an agile, almost adult style
  • runs around obstacles
  • catches large balls and throws overhead
  • climbs ladders; uses slide independently
  • rides a tricycle
  • alternates feet when climbing stairs

Motor Development: Fine Motor Skills

  • assembles simple puzzles
  • manipulates clay; finger paints
  • copies simple shapes, such as a cross or circle
  • stacks blocks up to nine high

Language and Thinking Development

  • understands most of what is said and 75 percent of speech is understandable
  • speaks in complete sentences of three to five words
  • matches pictures to objects
  • learns by doing and through the senses
  • understands concepts of "now," "soon," and "later"
  • begins to recognize cause-and-effect relationships

Social and Emotional Development

  • follows simple directions; enjoys helping with household tasks
  • begins to recognize own limits — asks for help
  • likes to play alone, but near other children
  • does not cooperate or share well
  • able to make choices between two things
  • begins to notice other people's moods and feelings

Tips for Parenting 3-Year-Olds

No longer a toddler, your 3-year-old takes in knowledge about himself and the world around him.

  • Transitions are difficult at this age. Provide warning of changes so your child has time to shift gears: "We're leaving in 10 minutes."
  • Rituals are important. Household routines and schedules give your 3-year-old a sense of security.
  • Point out colors and numbers in the course of everyday conversation: "You're wearing your blue shirt" or "We made six cupcakes."
  • Encourage independent activity to build self-reliance.
  • Provide lots of sensory experiences for learning and developing coordination — sand, mud, finger paints, puzzles.

Tony DiTerlizzi and Encouraging Young Artists

I believe there is an artist in all of us, some very tiny and others huge. Many times we just can't figure out what our medium is. Childhood is perfect time to cultivate and explore this part of each human.Tony DiTerlizzi, illustrator and the co-author of The Spiderwick Chronicles took some time to talk to me about his own path to becoming an artist and best selling author.

His words about what role the adults in his life played in his journey really stuck with me as I have a little boy at home drawing monsters and aliens. So this weekend found us all around a table just drawing together. Jack picked up Ed Emberley's Halloween Book at the school library. We took turns drawing skeletons and scary stuff while Lucy drew self-portraits.

Here are some ideas if you are encouraging young artists in your house:

1. Use the real stuff. Wander the aisles in a real art store. They usually have a kid version of a little bit higher quality materials which are often times easier to work with and produce a different kind of art. It is more expensive but you don't have to buy a lot. It makes art feel special too.
If this feels like a stretch for your finances, delve into the world of creating recyled art, it's endless and great for the earth.

2. Practice, practice, practice. Have art materials everywhere. Keep journals and pencils/pastels in a kit for the car or your purse. Tiny balls of wax or clay in a take along bag or even a travel watercolor kit. Art can be done anywhere and at times when you need little hands to be busy.
Turn off the televsion, throw on some music, and leave materials on a table. Don't say a word. Let kids find and create on their own.

3. Have your own art show. Collect the pieces of work your child has created and hold your own art show. Send out invitations; create a gallery feel in your house displaying their art. Serve lemonade and cookies. Invite adults and children to share in the work and artist your child is.

4. Claim the artist. Refer to your child as an artist. Ask questions about why and how they create what they do. Help create space and environments in which they can work. You don't have to evaluate their art, try encouraging their effort and intent. Like everything else in childhood, it is about process and is always better when it is a form of play.

TIME-OUT Discipline Technique

Recommended for children 18 months - 6 years.

I remember clearly the day my 2-year-old came home from day care, looked me sweetly in the eye, and slapped me across the face. Up until this point, we had mostly used natural consequences for unwanted behaviors (i.e. if you throw your cookie on the floor, no more cookie). When we realized that “No Hitting!” wasn’t cutting it, we explored the time-out technique. Time-out consists of immediately isolating a child in a boring place for a few minutes following unwanted behavior. The best results come when this technique is performed the same way every time and is used consistently every time your child displays an unacceptable behavior.

1. PREPARE:

  • Decide which 2 or 3 behaviors will cause you to put your child in time-out and explain this to your child (ex. hitting, biting, throwing food).
  • Choose a Time-Out spot: this could be a step, a chair, a corner or even a mat if you're out of the house. The place should be distraction-free and safe from harm. The goal is to give your child time to think about what happened, regroup and calm down.


2. IMPLEMENT:

  • Give your child one warning: “If you throw your food again, you will go into time-out”. Your voice can be firm, but should remain calm, not angry.
  • If it happens again, put her in time-out right away. Tell her what she did wrong in as few words and with as little emotion as possible. If your child will not go to the spot on her own, pick her up and carry her there. Do not give your child attention when she is in time-out.
  • Set a time limit: A good rule of thumb is 1 minute of time-out for every year of your child's age. Some parents use a timer. If your child gets up, calmly put her back in time-out and restart the timer.
  • Once your child has completed time-out, sit down so you’re on the same level and explain one more time why you put her there. Ask for an apology, and end time-out with a hug.
  • Immediately redirect your child to an acceptable activity when timeout is over.


3. REFLECT/PREVENT:
While your child is in timeout, or later when your child is sleeping, take the time to review the sequence of events leading to timeout and determine if there is something you can do to prevent its recurrence.

  • Was your child overtired or hungry?
  • Were you asking too much of your child? Use Tumblon or ask your Pediatrician to understand what is developmentally appropriate for your child. Are you asking them to do something that is simply beyond their ability? Is a particular toy or activity frustrating them because it is too advanced?
  • Consistency is very important: Once you make a rule or promise, stick to it. Try your best to communicate these rules to all caregivers.
  • Don’t forget to talk to your child! Consistently using timeout will help to modify behavior, but it is not a replacement for talking to them about how they are feeling, especially as they get older.
  • Learn from mistakes – if you are unhappy about the way you are handling your child’s bad behavior, give yourself a moment to calm down, apologize to your child and explain how you will do things differently next time.


4. REWARD GOOD BEHAVIOR!
This is easy to forget but is the most important thing of all. It doesn’t have to be an elaborate reward, your praise and physical affection goes a long way. Try to be specific. Instead of saying “Thanks for being such a good boy today”, say something like “Thank you for coming right when I called you. Great listening!”

Author: Adrienne L. Davis, M.D.

Building Parent-Teacher Partnerships

The day-to-day reality of many families is different today than a generation ago. Family members spend far less time together and adults often face an on-going struggle to balance the demands of their families and their jobs. While these pressures can cause parents to participate less in their children’s lives, there remains a great need for them to be involved in their children’s education.

Recent studies show that when families are involved in their children’s education in positive ways, the children achieve higher grades and test scores, have better attendance at school, complete more homework, and demonstrate more positive attitudes and behavior. Reports also indicate that families who receive frequent and positive messages from teachers tend to become more involved in their children’s education than do parents who do not receive this kind of communication.

One way to foster children’s learning is through joint efforts involving both families and schools, where parents and teachers share responsibility for creating a working relationship that will help children succeed academically. Following are some suggestions on how to build positive parent-teacher relationships.

As their children’s first teachers, parents and families can:

  • Read together. Read with your children and let them see you and older children read. When adult family members read to their children or listen to them read on a regular basis, achievement improves. Take your children to the library to get a library card and help them find books to suit their interests and hobbies.
  • Establish a family routine. Routines generally include time for completing homework, doing chores, eating meals together, and going to bed at an established time. These daily events are important to make life predictable for children and satisfying for all family members. Encourage your child’s efforts and be available for questions while she is engaged in academic work and spend time discussing what she has learned.
  • Use television wisely. Limit the amount of time children spend watching television and help them choose appropriate programs for viewing. When chosen carefully, some TV programs can help increase interest in learning.
  • Keep in touch with the school. Stay aware of what your children are learning, what their assignments are, and how they are doing. Make a point of visiting the school and talking with the teachers through parent/teacher conferences or family nights. If you can’t visit, schedule a telephone call to discuss your child’s progress.
  • Offer praise and encouragement. Parents and families play an important role in influencing a child’s confidence and motivation to become a successful learner. Encourage them to complete assignments and introduce them to outside experiences that will enhance their self-confidence and broaden their interests.

Family and school represent the primary environments in which young children grow and develop, and good schools value parental involvement. The foundation for good parent-teacher relationships is frequent and open communication, mutual respect and a clear understanding of what is best for each individual child.


How to talk to your lids about the earthquake in Haiti?

How to Talk to Your Kids about the Earthquake in Haiti

Posted by Kristen on January 18, 2010 at 9:58 AM in Kids Around the World

We have all been riveted to the television. I'll admit there are moments when I thought I should turn it off but I could not.

How do you talk to your children about Haiti? You are the parent and you know your children. Most parents have a good idea about how much their children can and should see of the news.

Be proactive. In our house, we decided to see what we could do to help 900 children in the process of being adopted by U.S. citizens that are now in orphanages in Haiti. This is close to our hearts because we have dear friends living in Haiti and working with Heartline Ministries and World Wide Village who have already adopted two children and are in the process of helping family members adopt two more children.

We contacted all of our elected representatives and then started a Facebook page explaining to others how they can contact their members of Congress about getting humanitarian paroles for these 900 children so they can come to the United States to live with families that already know them and love them. It took only 10 minutes and we believe it will change the lives of 900 children. It won't help everyone in Haiti but it's a start. It is something you could do with your children today that will provide a tangible result. We watched seven Haitian children get off a plane last night in Kansas City. Was it a result of our letters? We will probably never know. My kids think it was because of them and that's all that matters to me.

Find a worthy cause and give. There are the big names for donation such as the Red Cross and the Bush Clinton Haiti Fund, but there are some lesser known charities that are doing great work helping the Haitian people. We like World Vision because you get a chance to have a "say" in where your money goes. You can ask that your money go provide PUR water packets, a family survival pack or even have your money go to shipping the much needed supplies. Your children have an opportunity to visually see how your money is helping.

Find out what you can do in your area to help Haiti. Right now there are lots of areas having relief drives, collecting infant formula, tents, tarps, clothing and lots more. Check out your local news station and newspaper to find them in your area. Having your child pick out the items helps them feel included in serving those who need the most help.

Show your child where Haiti is on a map
. There are great resources for teaching your kids about the country of Haiti, about how earthquakes happen and what you can do to prepare for a natural disaster yourself.

Photo by the great Troy Livesay. Godspeed.

How does reading develop taste buds?

How does reading develop taste buds?

January 21, 2010

Author: Graham Scharf

Reading is like eating
The food that a child eats in the early years of life has a profound effect on the range and flavor of foods he will explore and enjoy later in life. Some Americans are amazed at young Indian children eating a spicy curry - precisely because their own taste buds were not developed in the same way. What is normal to them is not normal to young Indian children. The early experiences of both Americans and Indians (and all of us!) shape our palates.

Food and Books
If, in the early years of life, a child develops a taste only for sweet things, he may well resist eating other foods that are good for him. His taste buds have been shaped in way that affects his nutrition and health. In a similar way, if a child is exposed only to "junk books" (to say nothing at all of other media) in early life, it may be difficult later on to sink his teeth into more substantial books. In both cases, a child's palate is significantly influenced by his diet. Gladys Hunt captures it beautifully:

Reading develops the taste buds of the mind as children learn to savor what is seen, heard, and experienced and fit these into some kind of worthwhile framework.” (Honey for a Child's Heart, p21)

A child who is frequently "fed" delightful, beautiful books will find that they not only fit in a worthwhile framework, they help to create the contours of that framework.

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